Posts in Relationships
Drillers in the Mist — Exploring Yoga in the Mining Industry (or a Love Letter?)

Popey was having a hard time. Things were desperate, dull and dissolute in the lead up to Christmas. The bulls had been kicking up dust in the city office, and the team, including the Drillers and Fieldies, were bored, tired and overworked — a sure-fire recipe for trouble. I was leaving that day for Christmas break despite Popey’s conviction that I had been permanently transferred to his team. Later that day there would be tears, but not from me, for once.

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Mark Whitwell on Teaching the Heart of Yoga in Christian Communities

In this article, we collate advice for those who share yoga in strongly Christian communities, for how to break down barriers and teach in a non-dogmatic way.

Yoga is what you do as your principal devotion. It is your principal practice. Not puja, not meditation, not kirtan, not philosophy. In the ancient times, asana itself was what was done in the temple to your deity.

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Healing Toxic Masculinity Through Yoga: An Interview With Mark Whitwell

Despite the fact that most Western Yoga teachers are women, we don’t often hear much discussion of gender or gender inequality in the yoga world, perhaps because of the unhelpful separation between the personal and the political that persists in our society. New Zealand-born, U.S.-based Mark Whitwell is on a mission to change that. We interviewed him to find out about his Yogic approach to gender equality, and how this necessarily entails a critique of masculinity and a vision of a more equal world. Interviewed by Rosalind Atkinson.

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Taking Love to Heart: Turn On and Drop Out of Hookup Culture

Apparently the culture of casual sex hookups and “friends with benefits” relationships now rampant on college campuses and elsewhere in American life isn’t living up to expectations. In her book The End of Sex: How Hookup Culture Is Leaving a Generation Unhappy, Sexually Unfulfilled, and Confused About Intimacy, researcher Donna Freitas reveals that although she expected to find that the vast majority of college students revel in the casual sex ethos, “instead I encountered a large percentage who feel confined by it or ambivalent about it.”

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Internal Spring-Cleaning, or, The Art of Self-Reflection

Oh Corona. Yeah, you had us there for a moment.

After what may be called a “global panic attack”, following the first weeks of disturbing information about the virus on the telly and online, it literally felt like the world had pushed the “pause”-button for a while. Quiet streets, closed shops, empty cinemas and museums. Social distancing strategies have had us wiggle around each other in 1.5 meters distance, giving each other “the elbow” instead of the hand.

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Mark Whitwell: No More Than a Friend, No Less

Is there an inherent power dynamic between the Yoga teacher and the Yoga student? Is the teacher powerful and the student less so? Can authentic Yoga be transmitted within hierarchical power structures? In this short essay I want to offer a non-patriarchal framework for understanding the teacher-student relationship in Yoga. A perspective which sees mutual friendship and equality as both the means and end of wisdom transmission. The way through the trauma of alienated social relations is via intimacy…

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